True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they need something from you.
Hello everyone :)I'm back to blogging after 4 years break . Quite busy with all the stuffs, assignments and examinations TT
Well recently, a sad case. I'm having such uncomfortable and sad feelings where there's a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it's not giving up, it's realizing that you don't need certain people In your life, Sometimes you have to distance yourself from people that only call when they need something. Fair weather friends only want to come around when they need your sun to shine on their dark and gloomy days. In the end, you'll realize you only have a few true friends.
Well that's better than having many fake ones.
Well that's better than having many fake ones.
Well i do really understand there true friendship is rare. Only when you ever get in a bind, have a major failure, or somehow lose your way, you will realise how rare true friendship is these days.
To me, the difference in a true friend and one who calls themselves a friend, but is really an acquaintance is fairly easily identified.
Here are 5 characteristics of true friendship:
1. Unconditional love - Regardless of what you do, what happens, or where life takes you, a true friend loves at all times.
2. Unwavering support – You don’t have to do the “right things” to keep a true friend. They support you (if not in actions as a person) whatever you choose to do.
3. Willingness to challenge – A true friendship makes you better. As the saying goes “iron sharpens iron”. True friends will correct you if needed.
4. Consistent over time – True friendships aren’t for a season. They are for a lifetime.
5. Gives grace freely and generously – True friendship weather the sometime difficulties of relationships, forgive where needed, and love even when it hurts.
So dear readers,
Do you have a true friendship? Remember to cherish them all the time.
More importantly, are you a true friend?
